[He will just keep petting Dusk with slow gentle touch then.]
I get that. You said before you're processing so much you have--at least had a constant headache. You definitely need the chance to not think about more than one thing at a time. Letting someone else command you takes the burden off for a little while--if you even consider me that trustworthy I'm happy.
As for me--I know how this is going to sound but bear with me; I like what the person I'm with likes. I realize that sounds really wishy-washy, and maybe I'll remember more preferences, but as far as I can tell, I just like making people happy, making them feel good. So within reason, my kink is basically complimenting my partner's kinks, I think.
Which isn't to say I don't like things, it's more just, I'm pretty sure I like everything enough that the real pleasure is what makes the person I'm with feel the best.
For example, I get the appeal of being tied up, if someone wanted me to submit, and I trusted them and we were in that relationship, I'd want nothing more than to give them everything and obey. And on the other side, if someone wanted to submit to me, there would be nothing that gave me greater pleasure than making their mind go blank of everything but my commands and their pleasure.
I think I'm probably that way about anything intimate within reasonable bounds. It matters way more to me who I'm with than what we do--I mean, I like sex, I find the intimacy and touch nice, but the particulars of what I want mainly revolve around my partner.
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I get that. You said before you're processing so much you have--at least had a constant headache. You definitely need the chance to not think about more than one thing at a time. Letting someone else command you takes the burden off for a little while--if you even consider me that trustworthy I'm happy.
As for me--I know how this is going to sound but bear with me; I like what the person I'm with likes. I realize that sounds really wishy-washy, and maybe I'll remember more preferences, but as far as I can tell, I just like making people happy, making them feel good. So within reason, my kink is basically complimenting my partner's kinks, I think.
Which isn't to say I don't like things, it's more just, I'm pretty sure I like everything enough that the real pleasure is what makes the person I'm with feel the best.
For example, I get the appeal of being tied up, if someone wanted me to submit, and I trusted them and we were in that relationship, I'd want nothing more than to give them everything and obey. And on the other side, if someone wanted to submit to me, there would be nothing that gave me greater pleasure than making their mind go blank of everything but my commands and their pleasure.
I think I'm probably that way about anything intimate within reasonable bounds. It matters way more to me who I'm with than what we do--I mean, I like sex, I find the intimacy and touch nice, but the particulars of what I want mainly revolve around my partner.