....well, it is a question of how much is the affect that I might be under. But it could also be I'm demisexual, which seems possible. I definitely knew what I was doing. Not an expert, but I have at least enough experience to have not been flying blind.
[He totally slept with someone, THANKS CHARM.]
But getting more into it, it's less I'm interested in the sex as the things around it. I like affection. I like touch. I liked being close to someone. But I was pretty happy with just making out, I could take or leave the rest. And it wasn't like I wanted the sex because I wanted sex, I wanted it because it got me out of my head and it's still a distraction. It feels nice. But if the distraction came in the form of a really good video game, I'd be just as happy.
If anything, I might like the rope stuff more because it's not just about the sex part, it's about the mental and emotional stuff, of getting out an always needs to work headspace.
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[He totally slept with someone, THANKS CHARM.]
But getting more into it, it's less I'm interested in the sex as the things around it. I like affection. I like touch. I liked being close to someone. But I was pretty happy with just making out, I could take or leave the rest. And it wasn't like I wanted the sex because I wanted sex, I wanted it because it got me out of my head and it's still a distraction. It feels nice. But if the distraction came in the form of a really good video game, I'd be just as happy.
If anything, I might like the rope stuff more because it's not just about the sex part, it's about the mental and emotional stuff, of getting out an always needs to work headspace.