[Still smugly content with himself but listening and more thoughtful about it.]

That's the appeal, isn't it? Being trusted or putting your trust in someone. And I can see where I guy like you would definitely get a lot out of having someone else take charge, being able to let go and just get into it without having to worry about keeping a measure of defense or control up.

But I thought you didn't have an interest in sex? I mean I guess there's ways to be fulfilled just by being tied up, too, but those are usually still physical, and a lot more involved.